Are You A Perfect Match?

One of my favorite past time games is playing jigsaw puzzle. There is something about putting broken pieces together only to reveal a mystery picture at the end. However, the secret to this game is patience and perseverance; Patience to find matching pieces and perseverance to complete the puzzle. This game can be as frustrating as time consuming. Any piece that fits incorrectly would distort the picture, but when the pieces are all put together, it becomes a satisfying work of art.

Finding a good friend is like a jigsaw puzzle. Many of us have found people to whom we can confide, tell our secrets, work well together, or simply we can relate to on the same interests. However, some of us cannot say the same, because, developing any type of friendship/relationship requires more than a couple of sweats. We simply miss the connection. In a jigsaw puzzle, every piece contains different sides; each side is designed to meet and fit a particular piece that will help revealed the intended picture.

We can become and maintain a true friendship/relationship only if we are connected to the right person. In order words, we need to become a good fit or match. Forcing a connection with another person usually creates a sour heart and a heavy spirit between the two people. When we do not find our "other piece" and try to plug into another alternative, our picture becomes distorted and confused.

On the other hand, a perfect connection brings the right balance. If you are in a friendship/relationship and find yourself creating momentum to keep the relationship going, or the next time you meet someone new, who desires to become a friend, evaluate the puzzle and ask yourself: "am I the right side for that person?"

© 2012 by N.Michel/Bellflower’s Moment